It isn't-- [ He has to stop himself short from being defensive, but shakes his head. ] It isn't the same thing. Maybe there was a miscommunication, not everyone-- uh, i-is after the same sort of thing when they...

[ He clears his throat, looking uncomfortably at his food and again not making eye contact. His head shakes a little again mostly on its own, the color to his face not draining yet. ]

I mean, not everyone is good with commitment.